Saturday, October 14, 2023

Dressing for the Banquet

If you want to understand how we got much of what is in the Bible, think of the party game "Telephone." You know, the one where people sit in a circle, and someone tells a story… whispering it in their neighbor’s ear, who repeats it to their neighbor, and so on around the circle until it comes back to the first person. The fun is hearing how the heart of the original story gets garbled and changed as it moved around the circle.

Knowing that, we can maybe relax a bit after hearing today’s dramatic… and violent!... parable!

Understand that Jesus’ story is here being remembered by Matthew and his church after having been remembered by the people who heard Jesus, and the people who heard people who heard Jesus, and the people who heard the people who heard the people who heard Jesus, and… you get the idea! I suspect that Jesus’ original parable about how God’s covenant is for everyone has, through a first century version of the game Telephone, become something quite (well… how do I say this nicely?) weird!

It might have been easier if we did as some have attempted and just cut out the weird, jarring, far-out, or disturbing parts of the Bible. The problem is that, as strange as this is, it's still Scripture. It may feel like a game of Telephone, but the Holy Spirit is still part of the process. So now what?

I think it is helpful to recall that during the time between Jesus’ teaching and Matthew writing it down, the early church was bogged down in an argument. Even though God has expanded the Covenant to include all kinds of people—varieties of Jews and a myriad of Gentiles are all now members of this new Christian movement, they are beginning to repeat the same mistakes that Jesus tried to fix. The weirdness of this passage partially reflects the pinch these early Christian communities felt. 

Come with me as we walk through this passage.

Imagine that you were lucky enough to get an invitation to the Coronation of King Charles III last spring. You would have received a card that might have read “the Lord Chamberlain has been ‘commanded by the King’ to invite the holder to the Coronation at Westminster Abbey at 11 a.m. on May 6 in the Year of Our Lord 2023,” or something like that. And notice that the King would not have enticed you with the nice buffet afterwards. Would you have said “no?”

Well, that’s exactly what happens in Jesus’ story in Matthew’s Gospel today. The king really wants these people to come, but they could not have cared less!  They are not interested in the food, and they don’t want to dress up. Not only that, some are also so annoyed, so bothered by the invitation that they berate, beat, and sometimes even kill the messengers! This is an outrageously weird story!

Okay, but it’s weird on purpose. Imagine that what we have here is really The History of God’s Salvation…For Dummies!  It was written by and for Matthew’s church a few decades after Jesus may have said something kind of similar. I think that the parable that Jesus originally spoke might have sounded something like this: “God invited people to something great, to be God’s people and a light to the world. Only people didn’t respond as expected. So now God has invited everyone—not just one people or one nation or one group, everyone! —into the reign of God, and the promise of God's reign has been extended to the ones who have accepted the invitation.” Or something like that.

Along the way, someone added on to the original parable the part about the king who killed the party-poopers and destroyed their city. Why? To tickle the ears of Matthew’s church and invite them to think about how Jerusalem was destroyed by the Roman Empire in 70 AD, and with it the end of Temple-based Judaism, and also how the Roman city of Pompei, the most cosmopolitan, artsy, and secular city in the Empire, was wiped out when Mount Vesuvius blew its top soon thereafter. To drive home the point that “Shape up and fly right! God is not fooling around!”

But wait! There's more! You know those servants who were sent out to bring in everyone, both the good and the bad? They would remind those Early Christians of what we would call—from the last chapter of Matthew—the Great Commission, where Jesus tells us to “Go into all the world, baptize and teach!” So the Christians in Matthew’s church would have understood that God has sent Jesus Christ, who lived and died and rose again, and empowered the Church to go into all the world.

End of story, right? "They" are out. "We" are in. Hooray for us! Let the party begin!

Not so fast, sports fans! You may have been invited off the street without warning, but are you dressed for the party? The real sour note of this story (for us anyway) is the part about the guest who has been hauled in from the street and then is suddenly thrown into the eternal cosmic dumpster fire. Why? For not having the right party clothes handy! What’s up with that? 

Preachers have been trying to wiggle out of this for generations, with some commentators saying some malarky like "well, hosts kept party garments ready for guests and these jokers just didn't put them on" or some such silliness. [Sigh!] All that does is disguise the fact that this part makes us squirm. They don't want Jesus to sound so, well, mean! And I get it! We love the welcome part of the first part of the story, even with the special effects, but the “where’s your wedding gown?” part…? Not so much!

Well, it is very weird and I think it's meant to be weird-- but for a reason! I suspect Matthew's church heard and understood why it was weird... otherwise they would not have kept the story in their Gospel! The problem is that we are not in on the joke.

Or are we?

When I hear about the wedding garment, I think about a very old tradition that many Christian churches do when someone is baptized -- even today! The candidates (even babies) have their old clothes removed and after they are baptized from head to toe, they put on new clothes. The newly baptized are dressed in a brand-new white party suit!

So, I wonder if the wedding garment in Matthew’s Gospel might not point to this new clean white baptismal garment that would have been well known in the early church? I don’t know. In any event, I think that the Gospel is telling us that we are not party crashers but invited guests!

So, how do we dress for the party?

Today’s Epistle to the Philippians suggests an answer. Paul wrote this letter from prison. And he urges his friends to be reconciled, calling on his companions in Christ to rejoice and to stop worrying. He says, “Finally, beloved, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things” he is not just saying have a positive attitude, he is saying "put on Christ" -- like that baptismal garment! What we choose to wear outside does affect how we are inside, and how we are inside shows up outside. We have a choice. If we choose to be faithful, to come to the party, we also choose how we are, the kind of garment we put on.

Like a teenager trying to find just the right outfit for the big night out, we might find ourselves trying on several new outfits over the course of our lifetime and our life in Christ. Putting on the “wedding garment” is a life-long process. It is a process that includes intentional prayer, intentional stewardship, intentional service, and intentional worship. As Christians grow and mature, as faith becomes more and more woven into our being, we develop new holy habits of sacramental living, reading, and learning scripture, discovering the skills of prayer, and the joy of generosity. As we do this, we find that we have, in fact, put on—and are putting on every day—the wedding garment! Every day, we are more and more dressed for the party!

Thinking about the wedding garment reminds me of a poem by the 17th Century Anglican priest George Herbert. He wrote this poem just before or just after the King James Bible was first published 400+ years ago. He describes the ritual of a priest putting on his vestments in the quiet of the sacristy before a celebration of Holy Communion. But he is also talking about every Christian who in faith and baptism has not only accepted God’s invitation to new life in Christ but has also chosen day by day to put on the wedding garment. The poem is called “Aaron.”

Aaron

Holiness on the head,
Light and perfections on the breast,
Harmonious bells below, raising the dead
To lead them unto life and rest:
Thus are true Aarons drest.

Profaneness in my head,
Defects and darkness in my breast,
A noise of passions ringing me for dead
Unto a place where is no rest:
Poor priest, thus am I drest.

Only another head
I have, another heart and breast,
Another music, making live, not dead,
Without whom I could have no rest:
In him I am well drest.

Christ is my only head,
My alone-only heart and breast,
My only music, striking me ev'n dead,
That to the old man I may rest,
And be in him new-drest.

So, holy in my head,
Perfect and light in my dear breast,
My doctrine tun'd by Christ (who is not dead,
But lives in me while I do rest),
Come people; Aaron's drest.

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Here are the Scripture Lessons for the 18th Sunday after Pentecost, October 15, 2023.

Here is a video of the Sermon at St. John's, Clearwater, Florida on October 15, 2023.

Here is a video of the Liturgy at St. John's, Clearwater, Florida on October 15, 2023.


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